Tuesday, August 16, 2011

My bf isnt talking to me...should I give him space?

As a guy who's gone through a similar event, he may need space but he may need someone to watch him. He may be very depressed. Send him a text or leave a message asking if he'd like you to come over. Tell him that your worried about him and you Jst want to do whatever he needs to help him. Don't smother him just tell him what you can do for him amd ask if he'd like you to do those things. If he says no, don't push it. Just give him space. He might even opt to not talk about it at all and have you try to take his mind off it. Just give him space but let him know your there and ask before you do something. I know it sounds kind of stressful but you have no idea what he's going through right now so just ask acertively and let him make the decision to see you or not. Dont be offended if he says he doesn't. That just be the way he'd rather handle it. If you guys love each other(idk if your at that point in your relationship) tell him you love him and that your there if he needs anything and ask if he'd like you to be with him right now.

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