CALLING ALL Parents!!!!!?

I could give you all the pros and cons to on here, but don't really have enough space. I will say this though, on the ocks is not abuse. I'm not sure where you got that information. I'm in a field where I can say this with certainty. But, truly, it's about different people's styles of parenting. You make the rules, not anyone else. As long as you are not abusing your child, your choices are just that....your choices. Why are you making such a big deal out of just because others disagree with your choices?